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"13 Lessons That Life Has Taught Me."
My daughter turned 16 this past week and it has put me in a very reflective space. When she was born I was on the verge of a life changing experience, I was about to be unemployed and on welfare. I was days away from losing my license to practice law.
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The Suspension!!!
It was not what you may think. I was suspended for 6 months in 2010 because I made a mistake... As a young attorney on my own, I was told that clients must pay us before we represent them. This particular client stopped paying me so, as a result, I stopped going to Court for him. I later learned that the "right" way to handle this is to ask a Judge if I can be excused from the case.
A complaint was filed. I defended my position but I was suspended.
I was devastated because I did not steal money, I did not misrepresent myself, I did not have a drug problem, I did not break the law. I made a mistake.
It was a devastating time for me. Recently married, a new born child, about to be unemployed and dealing with massive betrayal. \When you slow down long enough to listen, life becomes your greatest teacher. And the truth is, every challenge, every delay, every victory… has something sacred to offer.
So now I reflect on 13 lessons, of the many, that life has taught me, the ones that shaped me as a man, a judge, a yogi, and a leader. Lessons that have helped me break cycles, lead with love, and stay grounded in peace
#1. Excellence is magnetic. When you do excellent things, excellent opportunities find you.
#2. Morning movement sets the tone. Whether it’s yoga, prayer, or breathwork—rise early and move your body. For me, it's all of them.
#3. True leadership is service. The strongest leaders are the most helpful humans.
#4. The hard thing is usually the right thing. Lean into the discomfort—it’s where growth lives.
#5. Silence is sacred. Creativity and clarity flow when you spend time in stillness.
#6. Keep learning. A disciplined mind is your best protection against chaos. Read, study, reflect—daily.
#7. The fears you run from become your prison. Face them, and you’ll find your freedom.
#8. Pain refines purpose. What hurt you was designed to teach you.
#9. Don’t trade quality for convenience. Cheap decisions cost peace.
#10. Mastery is devotion. Stay patient. Stay consistent. Greatness grows in the shadows of repetition.
#11. Love is the foundation. A peaceful mind and build a peaceful home. A peaceful home builds a powerful life.
#12. Keep your word. Move with integrity. People see what you do—even when they don’t say a word.
#13. Stay inspired. Guard your inner fire. Travel, create, connect, breathe—because you can’t pour peace into others from an empty cup.
If any of these lessons speak to you, sit with them. Journal about them. Let them guide you into your next level of peace, purpose, and power.
An even better choice is for you to join me in my new ONLINE COMMUNITY:
"The Transformation and Wellness Community" by clicking the link below.
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The Suspension!!!
It was not what you may think. I was suspended for 6 months in 2010 because I made a mistake... As a young attorney on my own, I was told that clients must pay us before we represent them. This particular client stopped paying me so, as a result, I stopped going to Court for him. I later learned that the "right" way to handle this is to ask a Judge if I can be excused from the case.
A complaint was filed. I defended my position but I was suspended.
I was devastated because I did not steal money, I did not misrepresent myself, I did not have a drug problem, I did not break the law. I made a mistake.
It was a devastating time for me. Recently married, a new born child, about to be unemployed and dealing with massive betrayal. \When you slow down long enough to listen, life becomes your greatest teacher. And the truth is, every challenge, every delay, every victory… has something sacred to offer.
So now I reflect on 13 lessons, of the many, that life has taught me, the ones that shaped me as a man, a judge, a yogi, and a leader. Lessons that have helped me break cycles, lead with love, and stay grounded in peace
#1. Excellence is magnetic. When you do excellent things, excellent opportunities find you.
#2. Morning movement sets the tone. Whether it’s yoga, prayer, or breathwork—rise early and move your body. For me, it's all of them.
#3. True leadership is service. The strongest leaders are the most helpful humans.
#4. The hard thing is usually the right thing. Lean into the discomfort—it’s where growth lives.
#5. Silence is sacred. Creativity and clarity flow when you spend time in stillness.
#6. Keep learning. A disciplined mind is your best protection against chaos. Read, study, reflect—daily.
#7. The fears you run from become your prison. Face them, and you’ll find your freedom.
#8. Pain refines purpose. What hurt you was designed to teach you.
#9. Don’t trade quality for convenience. Cheap decisions cost peace.
#10. Mastery is devotion. Stay patient. Stay consistent. Greatness grows in the shadows of repetition.
#11. Love is the foundation. A peaceful mind and build a peaceful home. A peaceful home builds a powerful life.
#12. Keep your word. Move with integrity. People see what you do—even when they don’t say a word.
#13. Stay inspired. Guard your inner fire. Travel, create, connect, breathe—because you can’t pour peace into others from an empty cup.
If any of these lessons speak to you, sit with them. Journal about them. Let them guide you into your next level of peace, purpose, and power.
An even better choice is for you to join me in my new ONLINE COMMUNITY:
"The Transformation and Wellness Community" by clicking the link below.
